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How can I stop agreeing to sex out of duty?
Petra answersYou can love your partner and no longer want sex that you agree to only to keep the peace. Petra answers how to begin changing that dynamic.
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Does size matter for good sex?
Petra answersCentimetres may attract attention, but skill, confidence and presence make the difference. Petra answers whether penis size is decisive for a woman's pleasure.
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