What if you have never had an orgasm?
If orgasm has never happened, it does not mean something is wrong with you. The first step is not more pressure, but getting to know your body, your pleasure and what feels right for you.
Read the articleArticles for moments when you want to hear yourself more clearly — in relationships, your body, desire, boundaries and intimacy.
You do not need to be calmer, more seductive, more patient and somehow make it all look effortless. Sometimes it is enough to stop and hear what you actually need — without someone else's list of roles you are expected to perform perfectly.
Here you will find articles about your relationship with yourself and others, pleasure, feeling desirable and intimacy. Some may give you an answer, some may open a new question, and some may simply confirm that you are not the only one who does not have everything figured out.
If orgasm has never happened, it does not mean something is wrong with you. The first step is not more pressure, but getting to know your body, your pleasure and what feels right for you.
Read the articleFeeling desirable is not determined only by a mirror or another person's gaze. Sometimes it helps to ask whether you miss your connection with yourself, your partner's attention or room to feel like yourself again.
Read the articleConnection does not begin with a magic formula. These seven slightly unusual suggestions may help you awaken curiosity, touch and closeness in your relationship again.
Read the articleYou can love your partner and no longer want sex that you agree to only to keep the peace. Petra answers how to begin changing that dynamic.
Read Petra's answerIn an individual conversation, you do not need a ready-made conclusion or a perfect explanation. It is enough to begin with what matters to you right now.