Articles and Petra's answers about desire, pleasure, sexual communication, boundaries and your relationship with your body.
Intimacy and sex can be hardest to talk about precisely when they matter most. Desire, pleasure, uncertainty, boundaries and expectations may change throughout a relationship and across different stages of life.
This topic brings together Petra's articles and anonymised answers, creating room for conversation without shame, pressure or quick conclusions. The content is educational and does not replace an individual medical or other professional assessment when one is needed.
When responsibilities and tiredness take over the day, intimacy should not become another item on the list. Petra writes about attention, initiative and making room for connection without pressure on the outcome.
Read the articleThe number of partners is not proof of sexual experience. Experience grows through attention, conversation, listening and a willingness to learn what works with the person in front of you.
Read the articleIf orgasm has never happened, it does not mean something is wrong with you. The first step is not more pressure, but getting to know your body, your pleasure and what feels right for you.
Read the articleYou can love your partner and no longer want sex that you agree to only to keep the peace. Petra answers how to begin changing that dynamic.
Read Petra's answerCentimetres may attract attention, but skill, confidence and presence make the difference. Petra answers whether penis size is decisive for a woman's pleasure.
Read Petra's answerDepending on the question, you can explore intimacy individually or together with your partner.
